Friday, January 6, 2017

You observed that your Man/Husband is stressed : Here is how to HELP him

Best way to know if he’s worried or stressed

One the ways to know if your husband is stressed is to check out his present behaviors with his regular acts.When comparing his current behavior with his usual one, you should look for how he usually talks, texts, his body language, his mood and even his health compared to how he is now.

Check if he’s constantly creating a fight with
He is arguing with you more than he ever has. This tends to be a major sign of a stressed husband. He will be what some women describe as snapping over the smallest and most meaningless of things due to how stressed and upset he is.

He won’t tell you what’s really bothering him, but he will possibly argue or fight over the smallest of things as he is trying to take out his anger for what is really stressing him out.
However, despite your husband being stressed, you aren’t his punching bag or his outlet for his anger. Remember to help him, be there for him, and to calm him down, but also make sure he doesn’t treat you horribly.

He is becoming more critical?
He’ll be more critical of you and what you do or say, due to him being so stressed. This is a reoccurring part of his stressed behavior as whatever he is stressed out over, he can’t fix. Meaning, he will be trying to control, fix, or nitpick and judge whatever else he can, due to his bad mood.

The romance has left your nest.
He won’t be anywhere near as affectionate, loving, sweet, caring, romantic, or attentive to you as he usually is.
This is a big sign of your husband being stressed as it will just drain so much energy from him and leave him not feeling romantic due to what is on his mind.

Additionally, he also won’t be wanting to express his love to you in the sheets for the exact same reasons. He may even struggle to get or sustain an erection due to his stress.
Health issues might occur

This is a very serious side effect that is associated with high, intense levels of stress.
It has been proven, that being overly stressed can cause heart attacks, cancer, ulcers, strokes, blood pressure issues, colds, a weakened immune system, headaches, sleep deprivation, and other issues that will affect his health for the worse.
Meaning, if your husband is starting to feel sick, have even more aches and pains, or to exhibit other symptoms of diseases and health issues, you really need to get him to a doctor, or alleviate his stress right away.

He’s in withdrawal
You will start to notice that he will be more withdrawal at home. He won’t pay as much attention to you or what he’s doing, he’ll zone out, and he will want even more alone time. He may even be more absent-minded as a result of his stress.

No comfort
Instead of your husband being his sweet, comforting self, he will be not so emotional or connected to you and won’t comfort or support you as much.
In addition to all of the other symptoms that your husband will display if he is stressed, he will also act like he has the weight of the world on his shoulders.
He will also leave no time for his hobbies or usual activities, he will be fatigued, edgy, distracted, and will even have over-exaggerated reactions to bad concepts that are large, or minimal.

How would you help him?
As mentioned above, you know your husband best, you know his stress symptoms best, and you know how to help him best. However, many women who have a stressed husband will wonder how to help him and due to the worry consuming them they become stressed themselves.
As well, many women have are starting conversations with their friends by saying “my husband is stressed”, and they then go on to talk about how it affects them and their marriage because the don’t know how to help him.
In order to avoid those conversations and that uneasy feeling you have while being unsure of what to do, read YouQueens solutions below to help you understand how to help your husband.
Healthier meals
Due to health issues associated with stress, it is important to cook healthy foods for your husband to eat in order for him to boost his immune system, and to even feel better in general.
Exercise has been proven to reduce stress, clear people’s minds, allow them to focus better, be healthier, and be happier. Exercise is a very important and strong remedy for eliminating stress.
By him exercising he will be doing something cathartic. It will also allow him to exert all of his bad energy, and to bring good energy back into his life.

If you and your husband split the housework or have lists of what has to be done, do the work for him without telling him. That way when he looks at his list it is empty.
As much as you don’t want to do more chores this will really help your stressed husband. Due to him feeling stressed over something in his life, he doesn’t need to feel like he has even more on his plate.
If he feels that way, he will become more overwhelmed and more stressed due to what he has to do and the fact that it is all piling up.

Help him lighten up
Laughter is the best medicine, do things that always make him laugh or watch his favorite comedy movies to cheer him up. The more laughter the better, it will be guaranteed to help him relax and cheer up.

Quality time
Plan dates and activities for the two of you to do together that he loves to do. For example, if your husband loves to hike then plan a road trip to a great hiking trail and spend the day enjoying nature and having fun.
Regardless of what he loves to do, it will help him be happy, realize you are with him and by his side. As a result, he will feel some relief and happiness instead of constant stress.

Be romantic
Everyone wants to feel loved and cared for, especially when times are tough. Do romantic gestures which he will absolutely love. This will be a reminder of the good times and it will make him happy.
By being romantic it will show him that you are with him no matter what and that you love and care for him.

Give him space
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As much as this seems to be counter-intuitive, it isn’t. In fact, this is very important when it comes to helping your stressed husband. He may want more time to think, to breath, and to be himself.
Whatever he is stressed about is eating him up and sometimes you have to be there for him, but also give him the space he needs as he has to do this on his own.
However, make sure you are still supportive and there for him when you need to be.

Be his wife, not his mom
Do not boss him around, nag, pester, or hover over him. Instead, just be there to support, love, and care.
As much as it may seem that you need to do some motherly actions, don’t, and if you do, infuse it with love and care, and make it minimal so it is in a wife loving way.

Be patient
Patience is a virtue and one you must have. Don’t get frustrated, down, or rush him in whatever process he is taking. It is important to do this for him as you love him and care for him, and need to be there for him while you help him along the way.
Being on the sidelines while you are worrying about your stressed husband is a very difficult task. Sadly, it is one that many women face as their husbands keep their stress to themselves.
However, a big thing to stop or prevent the stress from growing or happening is to talk about it with each other.

Communication and being together as a team is crucial for any relationship. This way you handle life’s curve balls as a couple because that’s what the two of you are. In turn, that then makes your lives both much easier and your relationship much stronger.

Stress is something that affects everyone and is something that is a monkey on everyone’s backs at certain times. It is important to be there for each other and to work through it together as a couple.

Monday, December 26, 2016

What to do when your man is taken you for granted

Get your self busy

If you two are dating and aren’t just hookup buddies, he should be asking you at least a day in advance to see you. If he gives you any less notice than this, always say you’re busy, even if you’re not. Make him learn that if he wants to see you, he’ll have to ask sooner. Remind him that others want your time, and you don’t save it for him.
If he is taking you for granted, you need to start worrying less about him and focus more on yourself. That being said, pursue your passions! Go out and do something nice for yourself, like getting your nails done or your hair done. Take up that dance class or art class. Do things for YOURSELF and keep yourself as busy as possible.

 Forget About His Birthday
His big day is coming up, and maybe BEFORE you had big plans to make him feel special. But why should you go out of your way to make him feel great when he’s making you feel so insignificant? Forget about his birthday. He will be mad, but maybe this is what you need to do to show him he doesn’t deserve anything special until he starts treating you right.

 Hang Out with Your Gal Pals More
So he didn’t make plans for the two of you this weekend- who cares! Go hang out with your girlfriends and have an absolute blast. When he calls you last minute to hang out on Saturday night, simply let him know you’ve already made plans with your gals.

Do something that makes you the star
Whether this means joining a band, taking singing lessons and putting on recitals, doing standup comedy, do something that puts all eyes on you. Remind him that you’re wonderful, and that plenty of people are ready and eager to give you attention. So if you don’t get it from him, you might just go get it elsewhere…

Cancel on him
If he takes you for granted, he probably often puts other things like his work or friends or even alone time before the relationship. Do the same by means of cancelling. Cancel because you’re tired and want a night to yourself, or cancel because your friends invited you to something really fun. Show him that the relationship has basically been surviving because you have been prioritizing it, and force him to pull his own weight.
Withhold information…for a while
If something big happens in your life, don’t tell your guy for a while. Then let it slip one day and when he says, “Why didn’t you tell me?!” say, “Well it seemed like you had too much on your mind to listen lately so I just went to somebody else.” Make him feel left out, and make him see he did that to himself.

Dress up super-hot…then leave the house
Remind him he doesn’t take you to do anything that warrants such an outfit, so the rest of the world gets to enjoy seeing you in it, instead of him.

Let me know if those works

Wednesday, December 21, 2016

Do You Think Friends/Family A Toxin To Your Marriage?

Trying to Recreate "The Good Old Days"

Some guys expect a newly married friend to continue to be as committed to hanging out and doing things together as he or she had previously been. They feel let down when their friend declines to go out for whatever reason, and they may begin to resent him or her for getting married in the first place. Other times, the resentment is directed toward the spouse, who has "taken the friend away."

In situations like these, unless the married person is able to explain the new facts of life to his or her friend, there will always be tension where he or she will feel forced to choose between loved ones. If the married person can't stand up to the friends, his or her marriage will suffer. Hopefully, if it comes down to a choice between friends and spouse, the newlywed will honor the latter commitment.

 Hanging around and Demanding Attention
Some women and men are famous for dropping in on married couples sporadically throughout the day, demanding immediate attention or lingering with no obvious purpose for visiting.

When couples don't get much time to themselves, it's easy for outside influences to gradually pull them apart. A demand here, another there, then another one and, before realizing it, the couples' time is all used up caring for the needs of their friends as opposed to tending to their own needs. They are often exhausted before the day is half over.
multiple friends, to visit, they should consider leaving at a respectable time so that couples can get time to relax together at the end of each day.

Granted, emergencies do arise with friends and everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. It's when these situations become routine—and occur just as couples prepare to spend alone time together—that they can cause damage.
On a personal note, when I want to spend time with my partner, I don't even want our children to interfere. We've spent time with the children and consider our time sacred.
Granted, emergencies do arise with friends and everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. It's when these situations become routine - just when couples prepare to spend alone time together - that can cause damage.
On a personal note, when I want to spend time with my partner, I don't even want our children to interfere. We've spent time with the children and consider our time sacred.

Treating a Spouse Disrespectfully
When friends show no respect toward their married friend's spouse, it creates strained relationships. When ill words are spoken, even in jest, they can resurface in a spouse's mind later. A seed has been planted that, if not cast aside, will be watered more and more until a joke has created a monstrous problem. Friends should always show respect to their friends' spouses. If they can't, they should simply stay away and remain quiet.

Spreading Gossip
Gossip is deadly.
The last thing a couple needs is constant exposure to gossip, and friends are often the source. Even though people know that situations become exaggerated with every retelling, some still tend to believe every word of gossip that falls on their ears.

As if this isn't bad enough, such friends may start spreading stories about the couple, as well. Too often, the other spouse gets the blame for talking when, in fact, it was an observation made by a friend that initiated the gossip.

Sadly, people who thrive on gossip don't know the difference between a friend or stranger when it comes to keeping their mouths shut, so married couples, beware! Steer clear of anyone who is constantly putting someone else down, for whatever reason. Gossip ultimately destroys peoples' lives and marriages. Yours could be next.

Old Habits Die Hard
When people choose to get married, often there is a compromise in certain areas. For example, if a woman doesn't want her husband drinking too often, or vice versa, she may ask him not to go out drinking with his friends every night. Likewise, if a man doesn't want his wife going to clubs alone, or vice versa, she can always pour a drink at home and avoid possible temptation from outside.
That being said, when a guy comes banging on the door of a married couple's home demanding the husband come out and have a few drinks, the husband may be tempted to give in unless he chooses to honor a promise he made to his wife about that very issue. As time goes on, the right decisions are easier to make, but at first they can be extremely difficult.

Similarly, when a woman comes to the house asking for the wife to join her for cocktails at a bar, the wife may be tempted to go, thinking she's just going to enjoy some time with her friend. However, she should honor the promise she made to her husband, as she expects him to honor promises he's made to her.

Jobs change, children grow and focus on their own families, while many friends come and go.
Did you realize that marriage is the only earthly lifetime commitment you make?
Guard it with your life!

True friends will hold sacred the vows made between a man and his wife.
They will respect the decisions made and act accordingly.

If people are not capable of such respectful behavior, they were never really friends in the first place.

Any Other Ways?

Can you think of other ways in which friends can be toxic to your marriage? Please state them here.

Wednesday, December 7, 2016

Reason Some Men Pull Away after the first days of your meeting and what to do

Does this situation sound familiar? You have been getting closer and closer to your guy recently and things seem to have been going really well.

You guys were spending so much together and he was calling or texting every day. He would bring you flowers or do other romantic things, such as take you out for a fancy dinner date.Then all of a sudden, just as quickly as you guys got close, he starts to withdraw.

If you are wondering why men pull away, then welcome to the club! This is such a common occurrence that just about every woman has asked herself this question at some point.
The answer of course depends on your exact situation, so I will go over some of the most common scenarios to break down the most common reasons why your man has been withdrawing.

What can be done  If A Man Pulls Away After The First Few Dates
We have all been there, so do not feel bad if this happens to you. You have been dating a new guy and things seemed to be going well. He was texting and calling you and seemed really interested. You went on a few dates and then bam, he suddenly just disappears on you. You never hear from him again and it is as if none of it ever happened.

So what is going on here? Are you crazy? Did you make the whole thing up in your head? Should you call him and try to find out if he is still interested?The bottom line here is that this guy is not interested in you, and it is time to move on to the next guy. You are a hot, single woman who deserves to be chased and wooed by your man. You do not need to waste any more time on the kind of guy who just disappears.

In the beginning when you have just started dating a guy, both of you are still free to date other people. He probably has other options, and you should definitely have other options too. Date multiple guys at once so you never get hung up on this kind of guy. In the dating phase, you should be letting guys chase after you. Guys have a biological instinct that makes them want to hunt you down and claim you as their own. They love to beat out the competition and win the prize. In order for that instinct to get fulfilled, you need to hold back and let them pursue you.

If you come on too strong in the beginning of a relationship by calling or texting a guy constantly, he is going to lose interest and pull away. Letting him pursue you at this stage is what will keep him interested and prevent him from pulling away.

If you let a guy pursue you, and he still pulls away, that is a sure sign that he is not interested. Wouldn’t you rather know now before you get too invested in the relationship?There is no need to let it get you down if a guy loses interest. Wondering why men pull away after just a few dates will only drive you crazy.  There are plenty of other guys right around the corner that would love to get a chance with you.

Tuesday, November 29, 2016

Reasons Some Men Take Women For Granted Why People Take You For Granted

The easiest way to judge yourself and find out if you’re someone who could be taken for granted by others is by testing your own character.

There are a few traits and characteristics of people who are vulnerable to be being taken for granted. And chances are, you have a few of these traits in yourself.

Read these 16 reasons why some people get taken for granted, and if you see these traits in yourself, chances are, you’re more prone to getting taken for granted than many others around you!

 You can’t say ‘no’. You have a very hard time declining something to people. You’d rather take on more commitments or responsibilities than utter the word ‘no’. You may think you’re being sweet, but your inability to say no will only make others take your sacrifices for granted, and hate you when you don’t help them again!

You’re predictable. Everyone around you, especially your loved ones, can totally predict your behavior. And since you’re so predictable, they subtly manipulate you and get you to do what they want. You may feel manipulated and used, but you feel helpless at the same time.

You’re too sweet. You’re a people pleaser, and you just can’t be rude to others. You convince yourself that you’re the sweet person in a bad world, but in reality, you may be the idealist idiot in a real world who’s too sweet and nice, and forces others to take you for granted even if they don’t realize it themselves. [Read: 20 signs you’re a people pleaser and don’t know it]

 You postpone decisions. You’d rather make excuses or postpone issues that bother you instead of dealing with it or concluding it immediately. You may think pushing decisions away is the easy way, but in fact, it’s the spineless way of dealing with your problems.

Your family, lover or friends who understand your inability to take tough decisions may abuse that side of you and make decisions on your behalf, and manipulate you into doing something you wouldn’t want to do because they know you can’t say no anyway!

You can’t confront people. If you feel like you’re being taken for granted, confront the issue. If you can’t confront the issue, you’d end up unhappy and fill your head with resentments and frustrations, which would eat you from the inside. [Read: 10 types of toxic friends you need to avoid in your life]

 You’re scared. You’re scared of people who are loud, outspoken, bossy, and confrontational. You just can’t handle them and they stress you out emotionally. You’d rather accept what they say than ever go against them because you don’t believe you can handle them.

You may think it’s the best way to deal with rude people, but in reality, you’re setting yourself up to be used and taken for granted by these kinds of people for the rest of your life.

 You lie to yourself. You lie to yourself and make excuses in your head when someone takes you for granted. You console yourself and tell yourself that the person probably took the right decision anyway and they’re not using you or taking you for granted.

You’re not happy doing what you’re doing for this person, but you console yourself with false words that you’re doing it out of free will and not out of this person’s manipulation. [Read: How to stop lying to yourself and the people around you]

You don’t believe in yourself. Somewhere deep inside, you doubt yourself and don’t believe in your own capabilities. You find flaws within yourself and you see other people as virtuous and flawless. You’re broken from inside, and you feel a constant need to please others to be accepted by them.

You can’t be alone. You constantly feel the need to have someone as witness to your life. Independence scares you and you find it easier to go out of your way and be nice to someone who treats you badly instead of being lonely.

You seek approval. You constantly need this person’s approval to do anything at all, be it to go out with your friends or do something for the first time. When someone starts to take you for granted, without realizing it, you’d allow them to emotionally control you and use you as they please. And before long, you lose your sense of judgment and you forget that it’s possible to independently make decisions for yourself.
 You don’t know your own desires. Every time you want to do something, even as simple as getting a new haircut or deciding on a restaurant, the voice in your head wonders if the object of your affection would like your decision. You always try to please this person, in everything you do, in the hope that they’d see just how loving and accommodating you are, hoping that they may realize just how much you’re doing for them someday. [Read: The risks of making someone a priority when you’re only an option to them]

You crave for appreciation. You don’t like going against people you want to impress or win over. You accommodate anything they say, and you bend over backwards to please them in the hope of winning their affection. Hearing a small line of praise from them would mean the world to you.

Low expectations. You intentionally keep your expectations low around people, especially the ones you love, because you know what constant disappoints feel like. But at the same time, you give far too much, in the hope that the one you love will see just how giving you are, and change and become a person just like you.

But on the contrary, this person may just assume they’re perfect for you already because you’re not pointing out any flaws in them, nor are you pointing out any of your wants or expectations from them. [Read: Are you being emotionally abused by someone you love? – 17 sure signs]

You respect them. You respect this person and you can’t ever think of going against them or offending them in any manner. This person is the center of your world and you know you’d do anything to keep them happy.

They know you respect them. The people who take you for granted are usually the ones who know that they matter a lot to you. They see the love you have for them, and constantly expect more from you without even realizing it.

And when you keep giving more, their expectations too grow all the time, until it reaches the critical stage where you feel completely taken for granted, and this person starts to believe that you’re changing for the worse and being mean to them because you aren’t doing the things you once used to do for them! [Read: 10 signs to recognize a selfish person and 5 steps to stop them from taking you for granted]

You give more than you get back. You just don’t know when to stop giving. And you always end up giving way too much before you even realize it. And by then, it’s probably too late because the person you’re giving to, may already be taking you for granted. And even if you back away, they’d only be upset and say you’re the one who’s changed for worse.

If you see any of these traits in yourself, there’s a good chance that you’re extremely susceptible to being taken for granted by those close to you.

You may not realize it at first, but it’s these very traits and reasons that force you to lose your own self respect, and depend on someone else for your happiness and achievements.

And before you know it, the person you love *and who loves you back* may unwittingly take you for granted, even if that was never their intention in the first place!

Once you understand these reasons why you’re being taken for granted, take a stand, and communicate with your loved one. After all, your life won’t get any better until you decide to stop giving other people the opportunity to take you for granted!

Monday, November 28, 2016

Home Remedies : How to quickly Get RID of stomach problems

Ginger to Get Rid of a Stomach Ache Quickly

Ginger has high medicinal value. Its main constituent gingerol is an anti-oxidant. The anti-inflammatory properties of ginger help in increasing digestion and therefore can be extremely effective to cure stomach ache. All you have to do is boil some water and add finely chopped pieces of ginger to it. Let it boil for another 3-5 min. Then strain the water and drink it in sips. You can also add some honey to the water to sweeten the taste. Alternatively, you can buy ginger tea or ginger ale from the market and drink it. Another method is to grate some pieces of ginger to extract the juice and massage the belly with this juice to ease the pain.

Lemon to Get Rid of a Stomach Ache Quickly
Lemon helps in curing indigestion and hence cures the stomach ache caused by it. You can have it in the form of lemon tea or lemon water. Both are equally effective in curing the ache. You may also add honey to the lemon tea to make it taste better. While making lemon water, make sure that the water is warm before you add lemon juice to it. To make the drink more effective you can also add a pinch of black salt to it. These drinks may be had 3-4 times a day till the ache vanishes.

 Peppermint to Get Rid of a Stomach Ache Fast
Medical studies have proven that peppermint helps in improving the flow of bile from liver to gallbladder. Bile are used by the human body for digestion, thus having peppermint improves the digestion. Mint also have a soothing effect on stomach muscles as it helps in relaxing them and thus reducing the ache. You can find peppermint readily available in the market either as mint tea or candy. Fresh mint leaves are also easy to find as it grows almost everywhere. You can either chew the leaves directly or boil them with water and have a warm mint tea. Either way, it will relax you and ease the pain.

Club Soda to Get Rid of a Stomach Ache Fast
Sodium Bicarbonate or more commonly known as baking soda is a strong antacid, i.e. it helps in neutralizing stomach acid thus curing stomach ache. All you need is one teaspoon of baking soda mixed in warm water to relax your stomach. Club soda is also an effective cure as the carbonation induces burping which helps in releasing trapped gases in the stomach. You can mix lime with soda to make it more effective. You can also drink other carbonated beverages which will have the same effect of inducing burps.

Chamomile Tea to Cure Stomach Ache Fast

Chamomile is anti-inflammatory in nature. It relaxes the muscles of upper digestive track, thus smoothing the contractions that move food through our digestive system. This further eases the stomach cramps. Chamomile also has a calming effect on the nerves due to its sedative nature. Thus, having chamomile tea can reduce the stomach ache significantly due to both its anti-inflammatory and sedative properties.

 Heat Treatment to Get RId of a Stomach Ache Quickly

Applying heat to the stomach is one of the best ways for relieving stomach ache. Heat helps in relaxing the stomach muscles. It also increases the flow of blood to the skin surface. This results in reduced awareness of pain in the stomach. Heat treatment can be given in a number of ways. You can use heating pads or hot water bottles. You can also make a warm compress for yourself with the help of a clean sock and raw rice or salt. Just heat up the rice or salt to a comfortable temperature and fill the sock with it. Then lie down and put the sock on your stomach and let the heat transfer to your stomach. The heat will ease the pain and also provide a soothing effect.

 Carom Seeds/ Fennel Seeds to Get Rid of a Stomach Ache Quickly
Fennel seeds aid the secretion of digestive juices in the body. Thus, they are extremely effective in curing indigestion.  They can be chewed directly or can be taken in the form of tea. To make tea, add fennel seeds to hot water and let it sit for 5-10 min. Then strain the water and drink it. Fennel seeds also help in reducing inflammation and the pain caused by it. Carom seeds can also be used in a similar way as fennel seeds, either chewed directly or as tea. When making tea with carom seeds, you can also add equal amount of black salt to the warm water to enhance the effectiveness.

Aloe Vera Juice to Get Rid of a Stomach Ache Quickly
It is a very popular indoor plant and it can be easily found in many households. Aloe Vera juice is also readily available in most grocery shops these days. It is one of the best natural remedies for various ailments. Along with its multiple health benefits, it is very effective in curing stomach ache caused by indigestion, inflammation or constipation.

Burnt Toast to Get Rid of a Stomach Ache Quickly

Charcoal is effective in neutralizing toxins in our system. Activated charcoal is commonly used for curing food poisoning. If you are experiencing stomach ache due to minor food or alcohol poisoning, then you can have a burnt toast to ease the pain. The charcoal in it will neutralize the toxins in the body and will help in processing the food or alcohol. However, in cases of severe food poisoning, then visit a doctor.

Apple Cider Vinegar to Get Rid of a Stomach Ache

Apple cider vinegar acts like a cleanser for the body. It absorbs away those nutrients which are not required by the body and thus cleanses our system. Add 2-3 teaspoons of apple cider vinegar in a glass of warm water and drink it. It will assist the body in digestion and ease stomach cramps. It is also effective in reducing discomfort in cases of heartburn.

Friday, October 28, 2016

Reasons to always have the kids at the back of the vehicles when driving

While you are driving your car, imagine you are on the interstate and you are cruising. You have the windows down, your children are in the car and life is so great. In one instance you could jeopardize the safety of your children. Having your children in the back seat at all times is the safest place for them.

When your child is in the front of your vehicle and riding imagine you are hit, and your airbags eject those air bags could possibly burn your child or keep them from breathing if they were to be directly shoved in your child's face. You would feel terrible is this were to happen to your baby. Many people think their child is at the age where they can sit in the front seat. If you have a child under twelve they should always remain in the back seat and this is just another couple reasons why. All vehicles seatbelts and restraining gear are used and made for an adults anatomy, not a child's. CHILDREN ARE NOT ADULTS.Vehicle restraint systems are designed for adults.

The front seatbelts in a vehicle are positioned at the lowest part of an ADULT'S hip bone. A child who is small will actually have the chance of this seatbelt made and designed for an adult rising up in an accident and initially can cause a lot of abdominal pain and injuries to your child. The seatbelts in the back of a vehicle are further away from the airbags, the windshield and the dash which are all big factors in one getting hurt especially a child when in an accident.

I hope all parents realize how serious this could and will be if they are to potentially place their child in such a risky position in a car. Don't do it! This will never be worth it. Always, keep your child in the back seats of a vehicle.